Love…! Everyone out there experienced love. Either mom’s love, friends love, girlfriend/boyfriend love, spouse love etc… some or the other way we all have experienced it…! It’s a beautiful feeling, sometimes it cannot be expressed in words. It should be felt. When talking about marriage, Love marriage is opposed in our society though we are in modern era. May be one in hundred love marriage is happening with full support from family.
Though mine was arranged marriage, I have loads of beautiful memories to cherish for lifetime. When it comes to marriage it will not happen always a made for each other. Sometimes you have to make adjustments. Life is not always a bed of roses, even the rose is ensued from the plant which contains thorns in them. Our life also will be having ups and downs, we have to support the other half… which makes life beautiful.
I have been married for three years now to an amazing person. I got married at the age of 24…! Too early, right? 🙂 Unlike fairy tales, this was not end of our story, life has just begun after marriage. I never regretted anytime for being married soon. My husband is keeping me happy even though we fought for silly reasons sometime, anyways it ended that night itself… 🙂 Though we fight, we get back, each fight brings us closer.
Love…understanding…trust…and respect…our relationship wouldn’t move forward without these four pillars. We learned to love, understand each other more and more each passing day. We respect each other’s likes and dislikes. We have united to become one soul. Love is just the beautiful thing and nobody knows when, where, and how it happens also with whom it happens… 🙂
I won’t say only arranged marriage succeeds and love marriage fails…many love marriages succeeded, many arranged marriages failed. My perspective about Love marriage as well as arranged marriage are…
In love marriage, marriage is the goal set for the couple, once it is achieved; they tend to blame each other or will not love the way they did before marriage.
But in arranged marriage, marriage is just the beginning and love is a goal; so they both work hard for achieving that by making some adjustment or sacrifices.
In love marriage generally a barrier between both families, language, religion, belief and culture, which would be difficult to overcome. This point may not be applicable to some love marriages.
But in arranged marriage, families with same culture, language, religion agree together. So it’s easy for the couple to blend together also for the families.
On the contrary, I have been noticing lot of marriages breaking after many years, although both bride and groom agreed at the time of marriage.
Of course, exceptions are always there both in love marriage and arranged marriage. It’s your responsibility to keep your relationship blooming always.
I would love to know your view on this… Please share your comments…
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