She was a teacher by profession, a mother by destiny and a home maker by choice. She was not strong woman as everyone think, she was just a girl next door. She was just a normal human being. She has her own limitations, she gets angry and frustrated when tired. She has her own strengths and weaknesses. She has her aspirations and dreams.
People saw her as a strong woman, thought that she can handle anything and everything in life, whereas the reality will not be same. She cried for love, care, understanding, and for each thing she was not able to get from her husband which she expected.
She cried all night when her husband was not giving attention just after their marriage. All she wanted was little care and understanding from her husband as she was away from her parents as well as her home. When she had an abortion she didn’t think that she will be able to handle that, but she survived. Her husband thought she is strong enough to handle the situation. That time all she needed was affection and reassurance with a hug from her husband.
She needed some care from her husband when she delivered a baby girl (her mother in law was giving torture as she gave birth to a baby girl). She wanted her husband by her side. When she was struggling with job and baby and home, all she wanted was a little help here and there from her husband. But he thought she is strong and independent to handle all by herself. When her daughter diagnosed a medical illness it shattered her, she felt helpless but he thought she was strong. All she wanted was to be held and told this we have to cross.
All the time she needed her husband for support, he thought she can handle herself. But every time she was scared, confused, struggled to survive. Although she is a working independent women at some point of time she needs her husband to support, need him by her side.
This story is not only of that lady, it’s happening in most of the woman’s life because their husband are busy on their job, profession. The whole responsibility of family is on their head. They may not spend time with wife, they may not able to be for her whenever she is in need.
But guys do take care of her, listen to her and ask her whats her wishes are. It doesn’t mean that you should buy her costly gift or something, all she needs is your time. Make time for her, it’s possible to adjust time for our loved ones here and there. Go for walk in the evening once you are back from office, so that you both can share your heart. You have only one life to be together, make it memorable…She needs you, she loves you unconditionally.
Are you giving support, time to your spouse…?
Happy time together…
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PS: Its not related to any particular person or anybody, it is just a thought came to my mind while reading a article in news paper.
